Thankfully most of the time I don't get into many fights with my fiancee. But we are human and life isn't like the Brady bunch so they do happen occasionally. I think it is pretty natural for the most part. We are not clones of each other and we have our own opinions on things. And when you spend as much time together as we do sometimes those differing opinion's are going to get into conflict. We thankfully never have any of the over the top arguments that are always present in movies and music video's. We are both under a lot of stress right now and as such tempers can wear thin somtimes.
However, I do have a few tips for anyone in relationship who gets in an argument with your significant other.
1) Always remember that you love this person.
2) Focus on the the subject of the argument and and don't bring up old shit. (I can be guilty of this sometimes)
3) Stay calm and think rationally.
We try to follow these three rules and it works pretty well for us.
I saw this movie on Friday. Overall it's not bad but I don't think it was that great either. It's a pretty long film and I think that some things could have been cut out with out sacrificing any of the movies overall effectiveness. I don't regret seeing it in the theaters but I won't be buying the DVD.
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